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When Seconds Count: the Urgent Need for Situational Awareness Training

Learn how the Paratus 3P Process teaches life-saving habits to spot danger early and act fast — using the Emory University shooting as a wake-up call.

“You can’t choose when danger finds you, but you can choose how prepared you are to respond.”

A Tragic Reminder Close to Home

On August 8, 2025, an ordinary afternoon near Emory University and the CDC headquarters in Atlanta turned into chaos and tragedy. Around 4:50 p.m., a gunman opened fire, killing DeKalb County Officer David Rose, 33, in the line of duty.

The suspect was later found dead inside a nearby CVS. Several CDC buildings were struck by gunfire. Thankfully, no civilians were injured, but we know from countless other incidents across the country that the outcome could have been much worse.

The Emory University shooting is a powerful reminder that threats can arise without warning in places we typically consider safe: campuses, shopping centers, places of worship, public events, and even our neighborhoods.

The Problem: Most People Rely on Luck

When danger strikes, whether it’s an active shooter, sudden violence, or another emergency…the first few seconds are critical.

Yet most people:

  • Freeze or panic

  • Struggle to make quick, informed decisions

  • Fail to recognize early warning signs

This isn’t because they don’t care; it’s because they’ve never been trained to think and act under pressure.

Most safety protocols in schools, workplaces, and public spaces are reactive. They focus on what to do after a threat appears. While those steps are important, they often start too late. By the time you’re reacting, the situation may already be out of your control.

The Solution: Situational Awareness

Situational awareness is the ability to:

  • Pay attention to your surroundings

  • Identify potential threats early

  • Make smart decisions before and during danger

It’s not about living in fear. It’s about living with confidence, knowing you have the skills to protect yourself and those around you.

What The Paratus Group Does

The Paratus Group teaches situational awareness through our online, habit-based training program.

Our unique Paratus 3P Process empowers you to:

  1. Prepare – Develop daily habits that keep you alert to changes in your environment.

  2. Prevent – Spot trouble early enough to avoid it or de-escalate it.

  3. Protect – Take quick, effective action when danger is unavoidable.

This training works because it focuses on mindsets and behaviors, the things most people don’t practice daily but that could save lives in a crisis.

How Our Program Works

  • 90-Day Core Training: Learn the fundamentals of situational awareness, the 10 critical skills, and how to apply the 3P Process in real life.

  • Weekly Practice: Short, practical lessons you can complete on your phone or computer, designed to be used immediately in daily life.

  • 9 Months of Continued Learning: Two pieces of weekly follow-up content to keep skills sharp and adapt to new threats.

  • Real-World Scenarios: Lessons based on actual events, like the Emory University shooting, so you know exactly how to apply what you’ve learned.

By the end of your first 90 days, you’ll think and act differently, noticing details others miss and making faster, better decisions under stress.

Why This Matters Now

If you had been near Emory University that afternoon, running errands, meeting friends, or simply walking by, would you have known what to do?

  • Would you have recognized the sound of gunfire?

  • Known where the safest exits were?

  • Understood how to use cover effectively?

Situational awareness training gives you those answers before you ever have to face them.

It’s not just about surviving a worst-case scenario; it’s about living safer, more confidently, and more in control every day.

Who We Serve

✅ Individuals & Families
✅ Businesses & Workplaces
✅ Schools, Churches, and Community Groups
✅ Runners & Outdoor Enthusiasts

How to Get Started

1️⃣ Visit https://www.paratus.group to learn more about who we are and our mission.
2️⃣ Enroll in the Paratus Take Back Responsibility Program
3️⃣ Start building life-saving habits in just minutes a day

Don’t wait for a headline to make safety your priority.
Learn the skills to prepare, prevent, and protect…anytime, anywhere.

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How to Teach Your Kids About Red Flags Without Scaring Them

Want your kids to recognize red flags without living in fear? This blog gives parents 5 practical, age-appropriate ways to talk about safety, instincts, and online threats—without creating anxiety.

You want your kids to be safe.
You want them to speak up when something feels off.
But you also don’t want to scare them into silence or confusion.

The challenge for every parent is this:
How do you teach your child about danger without making them afraid of the world?

The answer isn’t fear. It’s clarity, communication, and confidence.

Here’s how to talk to your kids about red flags (online, in school, and in everyday life) in a way they’ll actually remember and use.

1. Start with “Strange Behavior,” Not “Strangers”

We’ve all heard the phrase “stranger danger,” but it’s outdated and misleading. Most grooming and manipulation comes from someone the child already knows or thinks they know. Instead, teach your child to notice strange behavior, no matter who it comes from.

Examples to explain:

  • Someone who tries to get them alone

  • An adult who gives too many gifts or secrets

  • A friend who pressures them to hide things from you

  • A person online who asks to keep conversations private

Let them know it’s okay to feel weird about a situation, even if the person seems nice.
It’s also okay to report strange behavior to a trusted adult, even if it turns out to be nothing at all.

2. Use Real Scenarios (Without the Shock Factor)

Kids don’t respond well to vague warnings. They need to see how something might play out.

Walk through age-appropriate examples:

  • “What would you do if someone said, ‘Don’t tell your parents’?”

  • “What would you do if someone you don’t know asked you to go with them?”

  • “What would you do if you were at a friend’s house and someone made you feel uncomfortable?”

  • “What would you do if you got lost in a public place like a mall or event?”

Then pause. Let them think. Ask, “What would you do?”
This invites them into the learning process…without fear.

3. Teach “Pause, Think, Talk”

Simple frameworks stick. Teach your child a 3-step response when something feels off:

  1. Pause – Take a breath. Don’t respond right away.

  2. Think – Does this feel wrong? Are they hiding something?

  3. Talk – Tell a trusted adult, even if you’re not sure it’s a big deal.

Let them know they will never get in trouble for coming to you, even if they made a mistake.

4. Make “Weird” Normal to Talk About

Kids are more likely to open up about small things if they know you’ll take them seriously.

Ask weekly questions like:

  • “Did anything today make you feel uncomfortable?”

  • “Did anyone say something that made you wonder?”

  • “Did you see anything online that made you pause?”

These conversations teach them that their instincts matter. and that you’re a safe place to talk about them.

5. Model What Awareness Looks Like

If you’re on your phone while walking through a parking lot, they notice.
If you ignore red flags in your own life, they learn that too.

Show them how to:

  • Scan a room

  • Walk with awareness

  • Ask questions

  • Speak up when something doesn’t feel right

Kids follow your actions more than your words.

Paratus Helps You Practice This as a Family

The Take Back Responsibility Program wasn’t built just for adults—it’s for families.

Inside the program, you’ll get:

✅ Situational Awareness Training and Habits
✅ Real-world scenarios to practice together
✅ The 10 Critical Thinking Skills to spot manipulation early
✅ A common language to discuss safety, boundaries, and instinct
✅ Tools to stay connected as they grow more independent

We don’t teach fear. We teach awareness, confidence, and action for the whole family.
Your kids can’t spot red flags if they don’t know what they look like.

Start the conversation now. Start building their instincts—with yours beside them.

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Readiness is a mindset…

Being prepared isn’t about stockpiling supplies—it’s about how you think under pressure. This blog breaks down 5 questions that reveal if your mindset is ready for the unexpected. Learn the habits that set prepared people apart.

5 Questions That Reveal If You’re Really Prepared

Being prepared doesn’t mean having a bunker in your backyard with 5 years’ worth of freeze-dried food.

It means having the ability to stay calm under pressure.
To make a clear decision when everything around you gets loud.
To move, when others freeze.

Readiness is a mindset. And like any mindset, it’s not something you’re born with. It’s built. Practiced. Sharpened.
If you’re not sure where you stand, here are 5 simple but powerful questions that reveal whether you’re mentally ready for the unexpected:

1. Do I freeze when something unexpected happens—or do I move?

This is the foundation.

When your brain gets overwhelmed, it defaults to what’s been rehearsed. If you haven’t trained to respond under pressure, you’ll stall.

It doesn’t mean you’re weak—it means your mind was unprepared for that moment.

The solution? Start small. Rehearse “what-if” moments daily. Build your library of responses so your body has something to fall back on when time runs out.

2. When I enter a space, do I scan…or settle in?

Readiness begins before anything goes wrong.

Do you look for exits? Do you notice who’s coming and going? Or do you sit down, pull out your phone, and let the world blur around you?

This isn’t paranoia. It’s awareness. And it’s one of the most overlooked but important habits of prepared people.

3. Do I rely on others to react, or do I take ownership of my safety?

We’ve been conditioned to expect someone else to respond: a teacher, a manager, a police officer, or a spouse.

But what if they’re not there? What if they’re frozen too?

Preparedness means taking personal responsibility, not just for your own safety, but for those around you.

4. Am I making small decisions every day that build my readiness, or relying on big, theoretical plans?

Big plans look great on paper. But real readiness is built in the details…everyday decisions like:

  • Parking under a streetlight

  • Running without both earbuds in

  • Charging your phone before leaving home

  • Trusting your gut, not overriding it

You don’t need to change everything. Just start paying attention to the things you do automatically and upgrade your habits one decision at a time.

5. Do I have a process, or do I hope I’ll figure it out in the moment?

Hope is not a strategy.

The Paratus 3P Process—Prepare, Prevent, Protect—exists for this exact reason.
It gives you a mental framework to fall back on when everything else falls apart.

It’s not about having the perfect answer. It’s about having a repeatable process that keeps your brain moving forward when others panic.

You Don’t Need to Be Perfect… You Just Need to Start.

Readiness isn’t about knowing everything.
It’s about thinking ahead, noticing more, and being the one who moves when others stall.

If you're ready to train your mind, not just your gear list, start with the Take Back Responsibility Program.

Learn the Paratus 3P Process. Practice your awareness. Build a mindset that works in real life.

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Prepared, Not Panicked: Simple Steps Every Family Can Take Today

Learn the simple steps every family can take to stay prepared for unexpected emergencies. Build confidence with food, water, first aid, power backup, and a clear plan.

Recent headlines have once again reminded us that global tensions can shift quickly. With U.S. bombers deployed overseas and talk of heightened threats, many Americans are asking a simple but essential question:

“If something happens close to home… am I prepared?”

While some will say the chances are low, the reality is: We live in a different world today.

  • The threat from sleeper cells, proxy actors, and foreign adversaries is real and growing.

  • Attacks could mirror events like October 7th in Israel or target power grids, financial systems, water supplies, or communication infrastructure.

  • Cyberattacks alone could shut down electricity, and with that, your ability to communicate, bank, travel, and even access clean water.

This isn’t fearmongering.
It’s reality.
And while we may hope that FEMA or federal, state, or local governments can help, history tells us their response will be limited, delayed, or unavailable entirely. You need to be ready to take care of yourself, your family, and your neighbors.

The good news? Preparedness doesn’t have to be complicated.

You don’t need a bunker. You don’t need to become a survivalist.
You need a plan, a few essential supplies, and the confidence that comes from readiness.

tHE FIRST ESSENTIALS: fOOD AND WATER

If services are disrupted, grocery stores won’t restock overnight. Start with:

  • At least 7 days of non-perishable food that your family will actually eat.
    (canned goods, protein bars, peanut butter, pasta, shelf-stable milk, etc.)

  • 3 to 5 gallons of water per person, per day (for drinking, cooking, and sanitation).

  • Baby formula, pet food, or any specialty items your household needs.

This isn’t hoarding. It’s just smart, rotating inventory.

Cooking Sources

Don’t forget, if the power goes out, your ability to cook may be limited.
Make sure you have:

  • A small propane camp stove or portable gas cooker with extra fuel.

  • A backup cooking option such as a small charcoal or wood-burning stove or grill.

  • A reliable fire starter (waterproof matches, lighters, or ferro rods.

    Even simple meals require heat. Having multiple safe ways to boil water or cook food adds flexibility and peace of mind.

Light and Power: Staying Functional in the Dark

Power outages are often the first domino to fall. Be ready with:

  • Battery-powered or hand-crank flashlights (avoid candles).

  • Solar-powered chargers.

  • Portable phone chargers and power banks.

  • Spare batteries.

  • Solar-powered lanterns.

First aid: Ready for both minor and serious injuries

A basic first aid kit isn’t enough. Every household should have a Tactical IFAK (Individual First Aid Kit) with:

  • Tourniquet, chest seals, wound packing materials, hemostatic gauze, nasal airway (NPA), pressure bandages.

  • Antiseptics, gloves, tweezers, over-the-counter medications, and pain relievers.

  • Extra prescription medications.

  • Basic training on how to use every component in your kit (take a tactical first aid and CPR course).

Important Documents and Cash

Keep these items accessible:

  • Printed copies of IDs, insurance policies, medical records, and emergency contacts.

  • Reasonable amount of cash (ATMs may not work during grid failures).

  • Backup written contact lists in case phones or devices fail.

If things truly break down, cash may lose value. Food, fuel, water, and skills will matter most.

Communication and Planning

Have a plan ready if communication systems fail:

  • A family meeting location if cell networks go down.

  • An emergency contact outside your immediate area.

  • A weather radio or emergency alert system.

  • Backup communication devices that don’t rely on cellular networks.

Mindset: Think Beyond Supplies

Preparedness isn’t just about what you have. It’s about how you think.

  • Are you ready to defend your home, your family, and your resources if necessary?

  • Are you thinking through scenarios where unprepared neighbors or strangers might seek your supplies?

  • Will you help others who need it? Will you be ready to lead?

This is why preparing with your neighbors and community is just as important as preparing your own home.
You cannot afford to prepare in isolation.

Preparedness isn’t about fear. It’s about giving yourself margin—a buffer between you and panic. When you’ve handled the basics, you’re calmer under pressure. You make better decisions. You don’t freeze when others panic. Situational awareness starts long before the crisis. The Paratus 3P Process helps you build the habits, skills, and mindset to recognize threats early and act decisively—whether the risk is global, local, or right at your front door.

The world may feel unstable. Your preparedness doesn’t have to be.
Start small. Start simple. But start now.
Because hoping someone else will save you isn’t a plan.

Learn more about building your family’s preparedness mindset with the Paratus 3P Process.
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custom training for real-world threats

Discover how Paratus Group partners with businesses to create customized situational awareness and safety training that goes beyond generic, one-size-fits-all programs. Learn how our tailored courses are designed to address real-world threats specific to your industry — from healthcare and education to logistics and ministry. Whether you're looking for continuing education credits, team-wide culture change, or proactive threat prevention, Paratus uses its proven 3P Process (Prepare, Prevent, Protect) to help organizations train smarter and build safer, more empowered teams.

In today’s world, every workplace faces unique threats—from cybersecurity risks to on-site emergencies to social unrest.
Yet, most safety training is stuck in the past: generic, checkbox-driven, and quickly forgotten.

At Paratus, we do things differently.

We partner directly with businesses, schools, and organizations to build custom training experiences designed for the real risks your teams face. Whether you need continuing education, onboarding modules, or live scenario-based drills, we tailor every lesson to your industry, culture, and team.

💡 What Makes Paratus Different?

1. Industry-Specific Risk Focus
We don’t hand you a one-size-fits-all slide deck. We start by identifying the actual risks in your industry—whether it’s frontline customer interactions, logistics, healthcare security, or public-facing education environments.

2. Your People, Your Language
We adapt the content to reflect your workflow, roles, and people. From foremen to receptionists, we train your team in terms they understand and scenarios they recognize.

3. The 3P Process: Prepare. Prevent. Protect.
Our proven Paratus 3P Process builds habits and decision-making tools your team can use every day, not just during an annual safety week. We use micro-learning, real-world drills, and a drip content strategy that reinforces a proactive mindset.

4. CE + ROI
Looking for certified training? We build in continuing education credits and track completions.
Want impact? We provide reporting tools and follow-up strategies to show results and retention.

🚀 Want to Work With Us?

We’re currently building courses for:

  • Manufacturing & industrial teams

  • Healthcare offices

  • Private schools and universities

  • Churches and ministry teams

  • Public service and nonprofit teams

Let’s talk about what your people actually need—and how we can build it together.

📩 Contact us at contact@paratus.group or visit www.paratus.group to schedule a consultation.

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How to Model Situational Awareness for the next generation

Learn five practical ways to model situational awareness for children using the Paratus 3P Process. This blog outlines how parents and mentors can lead by example to build safer, more resilient families and communities.

Children don’t learn situational awareness through lectures. They learn it by watching us. As parents, grandparents, and mentors, our everyday behaviors set the tone for how the next generation will respond to the world around them.

The Paratus 3P Process—Prepare, Prevent, Protect—isn’t just a personal safety strategy. It’s a way to lead by example and build long-term habits that shape resilient, aware individuals.

Here are five practical ways to model situational awareness in your daily life:

1. Be Present and Aware

Put the phone away when you're out with your kids. Stay alert and point out what you see: a distracted pedestrian, an unfamiliar vehicle, or an open exit. This teaches children to scan their surroundings and remain engaged.

2. Demonstrate Calm Under Pressure

Life doesn’t always go as planned. When stress hits, take a breath and handle it with composure. Say things like, “Let’s pause and figure this out.” Staying calm teaches kids how to manage uncertainty without panic.

3. Practice Active Listening and De-escalation

Handle conflict with respect. Lower your voice, listen carefully, and respond with empathy. Instead of telling your kids to calm down, show them what emotional control looks like. They’ll learn how to respond rather than react.

4. Involve Kids in Safety Routines

Give children small responsibilities—like identifying exits, staying aware in parking lots, or helping with younger siblings. These tasks promote shared responsibility and reinforce the habits taught through the 3P Process.

5. Promote Respect and Community Awareness

Be kind, helpful, and considerate. Hold doors, acknowledge strangers, and offer help when needed—and explain why it matters. This encourages children to think beyond themselves and contributes to a culture of safety and mutual respect.

Final Thought

What you do matters more than what you say. Modeling situational awareness builds strong, capable individuals who can navigate life with confidence and resilience.

Already enrolled in the Paratus training? Keep applying what you’ve learned, and use these strategies to extend the impact to your family and community.

Not enrolled yet? Join us at www.paratus.group
Start your journey to becoming the leader and role model your family deserves.

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The Cost of Complacency: Moving from Auto-Pilot to awareness

Complacency is one of the biggest threats to personal safety. In this empowering blog, we explore how small mindset shifts and daily awareness can replace routine with readiness. Learn how the Paratus 3P Process helps individuals and families break free from "it won’t happen to me" thinking and build lasting habits for real-world preparedness.

Most of us like to think we’re safe. We stick to our routines, live in decent neighborhoods, and trust that if something bad hasn’t happened yet, it probably won’t. It’s an easy mindset to fall into—especially when life feels busy and predictable. But here’s the thing: safety isn’t about where you live or how lucky you’ve been so far. It’s about being aware and prepared before something happens, not after. And once you see that clearly, it’s hard to unsee it.

The Comfort of “It Won’t Happen to Me”

We all say it in different ways:

  • “Our town’s quiet.”

  • “Nothing ever really happens around here.”

  • “I’ve been doing this for years and never had a problem.”

That kind of thinking isn’t wrong—it’s just risky. It leans on hope instead of preparation. And in today’s world, choosing to stay unaware is a bigger gamble than it used to be.

When “Everyday” Doesn’t Go As Planned

You’ve probably read headlines like these, or maybe even lived them:

  • A woman leaves the grocery store and heads to her car. It’s broad daylight. She’s been here dozens of times. But this time, someone’s watching her. They wait for the moment she’s distracted—keys out, head down—and approach.

  • A school leaves a side door propped open for a delivery. A stranger walks in unnoticed. No one is hurt, thankfully. But it shakes everyone.

  • A mom runs into the gas station for a quick second and leaves her car running with her toddler inside. It’s something she’s done before. But this time, someone jumps in the car and drives away.

In all of these moments, the people involved didn’t feel unsafe. Until they were.

Not because they were careless. But because they were comfortable. Because they assumed everything was fine—like it always had been.

What Choosing Awareness Actually Looks Like

Choosing to be more aware doesn’t mean living in fear. It doesn’t mean you need to scan every corner like you’re in a spy movie. It means paying attention. It means noticing when something feels “off” and trusting that instinct.

That’s where the Paratus 3P Process comes in: Prepare. Prevent. Protect.

It’s a framework that helps you shift out of autopilot and into intentional living. Through small, daily habits, it helps you stay alert without becoming anxious. It gives you tools to teach your kids how to recognize safe exits, trust their gut, and respond with confidence.

This is the work that turns "What if something happens?" into "I know what to do if it does."

You Don’t Have to Be Perfect—Just Present

Everyone has moments when they tune out or let their guard down. That’s normal. The goal isn’t perfection. The goal is presence. It’s taking back the parts of your life that you’ve handed over to routine.

You already care about your safety. You already care about your family’s well-being. This is just about learning how to put that care into action in a way that makes a real difference.

If You’re Ready to Take a Step Forward

We created the Take Back Responsibility Program for people who want to lead themselves and others with awareness and confidence. It’s not about fear. It’s about freedom—the freedom that comes from knowing you’re prepared.

This isn’t about waiting for something bad to happen. It’s about making the decision today to live differently—more intentionally, more alert, and more empowered.

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From vulnerable to vigilant

This blog highlights the critical need for situational awareness in today’s unpredictable world and shares a real-life testimonial from a Paratus client who transformed their family’s safety mindset through the Take Back Responsibility Program. It explores how awareness—not just locks and cameras—is the most effective defense, and encourages readers to take control of their personal and family safety by embracing the Paratus 3P Process: Prepare, Prevent, Protect.

Why Situational Awareness is the Skill Everyone Needs in Today’s World:

Life doesn’t give warnings. Emergencies rarely announce themselves. From disturbing headlines about violence in schools, attempted abductions, to threats at workplaces, there’s a rising need for more than just hope or luck. There’s a need for preparation.

That’s where situational awareness comes in—not as a buzzword, but as a life skill. One that empowers you to move from feeling vulnerable to being confidently vigilant.

Why Situational Awareness Matters

Many families rely on doorbell cameras, alarm systems, or self-defense gadgets to feel safe. While those tools are helpful, they don’t replace the most powerful defense we have: awareness.

Situational awareness is about being mentally prepared, knowing how to spot trouble before it happens, and being confident enough to act. It isn’t fear-based—it’s about staying present and proactive in the world around you.

A Real Story from a Paratus Client

"Before I found Paratus, I thought our home was secure. We had cameras, alarms, and deadbolts. But one afternoon, a burglary happened on our street—just three houses down. The footage showed the suspect walking casually up to the home, checking doors until he found one unlocked. It shook me. I realized how easily it could’ve been us—and how unprepared we really were."

"That’s when I enrolled in the Paratus Take Back Responsibility Program. It completely changed our approach to safety. We didn’t just install things—we practiced awareness at home and everywhere we went. My kids learned how to spot exits when we go shopping. My spouse and I have a plan for emergencies. We lock our doors, but more importantly, we live alert. I sleep better at night knowing we’re not easy targets anymore."

Jenna M., Texas

Paratus 3P: Beyond Locks and Cameras

What sets Paratus apart is the 3P Process: Prepare, Prevent, Protect.
It’s more than a theory—it’s a daily mindset that helps you build habits that actually keep your family safer.

Through the Take Back Responsibility Program, families and individuals learn how to:

  • Be aware of their surroundings in everyday environments.

  • Teach kids safe habits without fear.

  • Spot red flags and prevent danger before it unfolds.

  • Respond confidently in high-stress situations.

This program isn’t just about emergencies. It’s about peace of mind in parking lots, school drop-off lines, grocery stores, and walks through the neighborhood. It’s about empowering your family to live with confidence, not fear.

You won’t find that in an app or a gadget—it comes from training, practice, and mindset.

Your Next Step: Take Back Responsibility

We believe safety isn’t something you outsource. It’s something you practice. With Paratus, you’ll get more than tips—you’ll develop a lifestyle of awareness, confidence, and readiness.

If you’re ready to move from vulnerable to vigilant, to teach your family how to stay safe in any situation, and to gain the tools that make a real difference—this is your moment.

Join the thousands of families already transforming the way they live.

👉 Enroll in the Take Back Responsibility Program today and start building the confidence, skills, and habits that will protect what matters most.

Enroll Now at Paratus.Group

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