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The Everyday Insurance Policy You’re Forgetting: Situational Awareness

Unlike car or home insurance, situational awareness prevents danger BEFORE it happens. Learn how Paratus helps keep you and your family safe every day.

We don’t think twice about buying insurance.
We pay for car insurance, health insurance, and home insurance because we know life is unpredictable.

But here’s the truth:
🚗 Car insurance doesn’t stop a crash.
🔥 Home insurance doesn’t prevent a fire.
⚕️ Health insurance doesn’t keep you from getting sick.

Insurance reacts after something has already gone wrong.

What if you could protect yourself and your family before the worst happens?

That’s exactly what situational awareness training does.

Insurance Reacts. Awareness Prevents.

Insurance is essential, but it only helps you after the damage is done.

Situational awareness is proactive. It’s the skill of noticing danger early, making smart decisions, and acting before chaos unfolds.

Instead of picking up the pieces after tragedy, you can avoid being caught in it altogether.

The Seatbelt and Smoke Detector Mindset

Think about it:

  • You buckle your seatbelt every time you drive, not because you expect to crash, but because you know it could happen.

  • You install smoke detectors, even if your house has never caught fire.

Situational awareness works the same way. It’s a safety habit you carry with you:
✔️ At the grocery store
✔️ In a parking lot
✔️ At work
✔️ On your morning run

Most of the time, your day will be completely normal. But if something goes wrong, your awareness could make all the difference.

Why Your Family Needs It Most

If you’re a parent, you know the worry that comes when your kids walk out the door. You’re not there to shield them from the world.

  • Teens face peer pressure and unsafe gatherings.

  • College students navigate campuses where theft, harassment, and even violence can occur.

  • Spouses and loved ones face daily risks, from late-night commutes to busy public events.

Situational awareness isn’t about living in fear. It’s about confidence: allowing your family to spot risks, trust their instincts, and act fast when something doesn’t feel right.

It’s not paranoia. It’s protection.

The Paratus Difference

Here’s where we come in.

The Paratus Take Back Responsibility program isn’t a one-time workshop or lecture you’ll forget by next week. It’s an online course that works like an awareness gym: short, practical lessons you can fit into your everyday life.

  • Prepare: Build daily habits that keep you alert and aware.

  • Prevent: Recognize subtle risks before they turn into real danger.

  • Protect: Respond quickly and confidently when a threat can’t be avoided.

Just like exercise builds muscle, Paratus training builds instinct. Over time, it becomes second nature.

The Bottom Line

You’d never drive without insurance.
You’d never leave your home unprotected from fire.
So why go through life without protecting what’s most valuable, your safety and your family’s safety?

Situational awareness is the one “insurance policy” you don’t just pay for and hope you never use. It’s the one you practice every day and that protects you every time you step out the door.

💡 Don’t wait until a headline or emergency makes you wish you had started sooner.
Learn how to Prepare, Prevent, and Protect with Paratus today: https://www.paratus.group/takebackresponsibility

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Cooper’s color code: A simple way to stay aware every day.

Cooper’s Color Code is a simple system that helps you recognize and adjust your awareness in everyday situations. Learn how to apply it at home, at work, or on the go, and how it fits into the Paratus 3P Process for real-world readiness.

We’ve all had those moments…a gut feeling, a quick glance over the shoulder, a pause before stepping into an unfamiliar space.

That’s your awareness at work. But what if you could train that awareness intentionally? What if you had a simple way to understand what level of alertness you're operating in and how to adjust it as your environment changes?

That’s exactly what Colonel Jeff Cooper’s Color Code is designed to help with. Originally used in firearm safety and self-defense circles, the color code is much more than a tactical tool. It’s a mindset model—a simple, visual way to think about how present, prepared, or distracted you are in any situation. And yes, it’s just as applicable walking through a parking lot as it is in a high-risk environment.

Let’s break it down.

⚪️ Condition White: Unaware

This is your default mode when you’re relaxed, distracted, and not paying attention to your surroundings.

You might be:

  • Scrolling on your phone

  • Daydreaming

  • Zoned out in a familiar space

  • Wearing both earbuds while walking

In Condition White, you’re not mentally prepared to notice something unexpected, which makes it harder to respond if something does go wrong. There’s a time and place for White—but it shouldn’t be your default in public spaces.

🟡 Condition Yellow: Relaxed Alert

This is where we aim to live most of the time.

In Yellow, you’re calm and confident—but you’re also observing. You’re scanning your surroundings, casually noting what’s going on, and aware of any subtle shifts in energy or movement.

Examples:

  • Noticing who enters a coffee shop

  • Walking through a parking lot with your keys ready

  • Checking for exits when you enter a new room

You’re not anxious. You’re just engaged with your environment. This is the core of everyday situational awareness, and it’s where most prepared people stay by choice.

🟠 Condition Orange: Focused Attention

In Orange, something has caught your attention. It doesn’t mean there’s a threat—but something feels off enough that you’ve shifted focus. You’re starting to assess.

Examples:

  • Someone is following you too closely

  • A person’s behavior suddenly shifts

  • A sound or movement triggers your instincts

In Orange, your mind is asking: “If this becomes a problem… what will I do?” This is where mental rehearsal begins.

🔴 Condition Red: Ready to Act

Condition Red means your gut check from Orange just turned into a decision.

This is the moment you prepare to act—whether that’s walking away, calling for help, confronting a situation, or physically defending yourself as a last resort. This level isn’t just about intensity, it’s about decisiveness.

Most importantly: You don’t need to live in Red. You just need to know how to get there if needed and without panic.

Why It Matters in Real Life

This color code isn’t just for law enforcement or military professionals.
It’s for:

  • Runners

  • Parents

  • Teens walking home from school

  • Travelers at a rest stop

  • Anyone who wants to be more prepared in everyday life

At Paratus, we teach this model inside our Situational Awareness Course because it gives people a simple, empowering way to check in with their mindset at any moment. And once you learn to operate in Yellow by default, you'll be amazed how quickly you start noticing things you used to overlook.

Here's How to Use It This Week:

✅ Practice checking your level when you walk into a new space
✅ Make Yellow your new default (calm, relaxed alertness)
✅ Teach your kids or loved ones the concept using age-appropriate language
✅ Journal one moment this week where you shifted levels, what triggered it? How did you respond?

Want to go deeper?

Our Situational Awareness Course at Paratus doesn’t just teach you what to watch for—it teaches you how to observe, decide, and act with purpose. The Cooper Color Code is just one part of the Paratus 3P Process—Prepare. Prevent. Protect. Whether you’re walking to your car or leading a team, the way you think under pressure matters.

Start training that mindset today.
🔗 Learn more and Enroll Here

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How to Teach Your Kids About Red Flags Without Scaring Them

Want your kids to recognize red flags without living in fear? This blog gives parents 5 practical, age-appropriate ways to talk about safety, instincts, and online threats—without creating anxiety.

You want your kids to be safe.
You want them to speak up when something feels off.
But you also don’t want to scare them into silence or confusion.

The challenge for every parent is this:
How do you teach your child about danger without making them afraid of the world?

The answer isn’t fear. It’s clarity, communication, and confidence.

Here’s how to talk to your kids about red flags (online, in school, and in everyday life) in a way they’ll actually remember and use.

1. Start with “Strange Behavior,” Not “Strangers”

We’ve all heard the phrase “stranger danger,” but it’s outdated and misleading. Most grooming and manipulation comes from someone the child already knows or thinks they know. Instead, teach your child to notice strange behavior, no matter who it comes from.

Examples to explain:

  • Someone who tries to get them alone

  • An adult who gives too many gifts or secrets

  • A friend who pressures them to hide things from you

  • A person online who asks to keep conversations private

Let them know it’s okay to feel weird about a situation, even if the person seems nice.
It’s also okay to report strange behavior to a trusted adult, even if it turns out to be nothing at all.

2. Use Real Scenarios (Without the Shock Factor)

Kids don’t respond well to vague warnings. They need to see how something might play out.

Walk through age-appropriate examples:

  • “What would you do if someone said, ‘Don’t tell your parents’?”

  • “What would you do if someone you don’t know asked you to go with them?”

  • “What would you do if you were at a friend’s house and someone made you feel uncomfortable?”

  • “What would you do if you got lost in a public place like a mall or event?”

Then pause. Let them think. Ask, “What would you do?”
This invites them into the learning process…without fear.

3. Teach “Pause, Think, Talk”

Simple frameworks stick. Teach your child a 3-step response when something feels off:

  1. Pause – Take a breath. Don’t respond right away.

  2. Think – Does this feel wrong? Are they hiding something?

  3. Talk – Tell a trusted adult, even if you’re not sure it’s a big deal.

Let them know they will never get in trouble for coming to you, even if they made a mistake.

4. Make “Weird” Normal to Talk About

Kids are more likely to open up about small things if they know you’ll take them seriously.

Ask weekly questions like:

  • “Did anything today make you feel uncomfortable?”

  • “Did anyone say something that made you wonder?”

  • “Did you see anything online that made you pause?”

These conversations teach them that their instincts matter. and that you’re a safe place to talk about them.

5. Model What Awareness Looks Like

If you’re on your phone while walking through a parking lot, they notice.
If you ignore red flags in your own life, they learn that too.

Show them how to:

  • Scan a room

  • Walk with awareness

  • Ask questions

  • Speak up when something doesn’t feel right

Kids follow your actions more than your words.

Paratus Helps You Practice This as a Family

The Take Back Responsibility Program wasn’t built just for adults—it’s for families.

Inside the program, you’ll get:

✅ Situational Awareness Training and Habits
✅ Real-world scenarios to practice together
✅ The 10 Critical Thinking Skills to spot manipulation early
✅ A common language to discuss safety, boundaries, and instinct
✅ Tools to stay connected as they grow more independent

We don’t teach fear. We teach awareness, confidence, and action for the whole family.
Your kids can’t spot red flags if they don’t know what they look like.

Start the conversation now. Start building their instincts—with yours beside them.

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What Your Kids Should Know Before School Starts Again

As kids head back to school, it’s not just about supplies—it’s about safety. Learn the 5 key things your child should know to stay aware, make smart decisions, and respond confidently. Build awareness with the Paratus 3P Process.

A Parent’s Guide to Everyday Safety

Backpacks are soon to be packed, supply lists are checked, and the first-day jitters are on the horizon. But as you get your child ready to return to school, there’s one area of preparation many parents overlook…personal safety and situational awareness.

We teach our kids how to read, write, and follow school rules.
But do they know what to do if something feels “off”?
If a stranger approaches?
If a classmate says something that makes them uncomfortable?

As the world becomes more complex, the threats our children face, both online and in person are evolving. Now more than ever, we need to prepare our kids to recognize those threats and respond with confidence, not fear.

Here are five essential things your child should know before stepping back into the classroom this fall:

1. How to Trust Their Gut and Speak Up

Children are incredibly intuitive. But if they haven’t been taught to trust their instincts, they may freeze or second-guess themselves when something feels wrong. Teach your child that it’s okay to speak up, even if they’re not sure something is “serious.” If someone gives them an uncomfortable feeling, they need to know it’s always better to say something.

Give them permission to:

  • Leave a situation that feels off

  • Tell an adult they trust

  • Say “no” to anything that crosses a boundary

2. Who Their Safe Adults Are (and Aren’t)

Kids need to know exactly who they can go to at school, at aftercare, or even during transit if something goes wrong. Just saying “tell an adult” isn’t enough.

Create a list with your child:

  • Name their teacher, coach, principal, or counselor

  • Include trusted friends’ parents or nearby family members

  • Be clear that not all adults are automatically safe

3. What Situational Awareness Looks Like for a Kid

Situational awareness isn’t about paranoia…it’s about paying attention. Even young children can learn this in age-appropriate ways.

Teach your child to:

  • Notice exits and safe spaces in every room

  • Stay alert to people who might be watching or following

  • Keep their phone (if they have one) charged and silenced, not glued to their face

  • Avoid walking alone while distracted

This doesn't have to be scary, it can be practiced as a game:
“What color was the door we came in?” or “How many exits did you see in the cafeteria?”

4. How to Handle Unsafe Digital Situations

Most kids use devices daily in school. That opens doors to communication and risk, especially when it comes to online messaging, gaming, or group chats.

Before school starts:

  • Set digital boundaries: no chatting with strangers, no accepting game invites from people they don’t know

  • Teach them the red flags of grooming and manipulation

  • Help them understand that once something is sent, it can’t be taken back

  • Encourage them to talk to you if something weird happens online—without fear of getting in trouble

5. What to Do in a Real Emergency

If the fire alarm goes off, there’s a lockdown drill, or someone on campus is acting strangely, your child should already have a basic response plan.

Go over simple but powerful steps:

  • Where do they go if they’re in class?

  • What if they’re in the bathroom or hallway during an emergency?

  • Who do they text if they can use their phone?

  • What are the school’s safety words or codes?

When your child is confident in the plan, they’re less likely to freeze in a real situation.

Train Their Confidence, not Their Fear

The goal isn’t to scare your child. The goal is to empower them.

That’s exactly what the Paratus 3P Process is designed to do. Through simple, practical steps, your family can build:

  • Situational awareness habits

  • Critical thinking skills

  • Real-world scenarios to practice

  • A shared language of safety

You don’t have to figure it out alone. You don’t have to be paranoid. You just have to start preparing together.

Want to make sure your child goes back to school with more than pencils and notebooks?
Equip them with the awareness and confidence to face anything that comes their way.

Learn more about the Take Back Responsibility Program at https://www.paratus.group/takebackresponsibility

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